When I started dating Evan, I admired how devoted he was to his two kids. But soon I noticed a pattern—every time we went out to eat, Evan “forgot” his wallet, leaving me to cover the bill. At first, I thought it was an honest mistake, but it happened again and again. The dinners were expensive, and I was struggling to keep up financially.

I kept quiet for months, not wanting to upset the kids or cause drama. My sister urged me to confront him, but I hesitated. Evan let his kids order whatever they wanted, insisting they deserved the treats since their mom was strict. Meanwhile, I was stuck paying for fancy meals while working two jobs just to get by.

One night, after yet another “forgotten wallet” excuse, I finally stood my ground. At the restaurant, I refused to pay for Evan’s share and asked for separate checks. The kids were shocked, and Evan was furious, but I told him I was done being his backup wallet. I walked out with my head held high, no longer willing to be taken advantage of.

Evan called later, angry and accusing me of embarrassing him, but I told him the truth: I deserved respect, not excuses. I blocked his number and walked away for good. It wasn’t just about money—it was about standing up for myself and demanding the respect I deserved.