In our house, Dad acted like a king—demanding food, barking orders, and spending evenings glued to his PlayStation. Mom ran herself ragged serving him, while my brother Josh and I felt invisible. One night, after watching him scold Mom over something trivial, I told Josh we needed to do something. We couldn’t let things go on like this.
The next day, while Mom took a much-needed break, Josh and I dressed in Dad’s clothes and mimicked his behavior. When he walked in, we ordered him around, ignored him, and demanded dinner just like he did with Mom. At first, he was confused, but then his expression shifted. “Is this how you see me?” he asked, his voice cracking. For the first time, he seemed to realize how badly he’d been treating us.
Right then, Mom walked in and was stunned to see Dad with tears in his eyes. He admitted he’d been a terrible husband and father and apologized. To our surprise, he went into the kitchen, cooked dinner for the family, and served us himself. As we ate, he actually asked about our day and offered to help me study for school. It was the kind of attention we’d longed for.
That night, as we cleaned up together, there was laughter and warmth that had been missing for years. It wasn’t a magical fix, but it was a start. For the first time in a long while, we didn’t feel like ghosts in our own home. We felt like a family again.