After 20 years of paying the mortgage—over $600,000—Jessica discovered her husband secretly transferred the deed to his mother. The shock feels like a theft of her life’s investment and hard-earned equity.
His promise that she’ll “get it back” after his mother passes doesn’t fix the immediate harm. Calling her greedy and telling her to back off only deepens the betrayal and undermines the partnership a marriage should be.
Helping an aging parent shouldn’t come at Jessica’s expense. She’s entitled to fair compensation for her share of the home; a $300,000 buyout—half the equity built over two decades—is reasonable and just, not greedy.
Jessica should stand firm yet keep communication open. A mediator (or counselor) could help the couple reach a fair resolution that respects her rights and his family obligations. She deserves fairness, respect, and to be made whole.