I divorced my husband when our daughter, Maria, was 10. I struggled financially while my ex spoiled her with expensive gifts. By 17, she chose to live with him and told me I wasn’t her mother anymore.
Four years later, she called me out of the blue, her voice trembling. “Mom… can I come stay with you?”
When she arrived, she had just a small duffel bag—no Mercedes, no designer clothes. Slowly, she opened up. Her dad had remarried a woman named Clio, who favored her own children and treated Maria like an outsider. When Maria complained, her dad sided with Clio.
The breaking point came when Clio donated all of Maria’s clothes, leaving her with almost nothing. That’s when Maria realized she’d been pushed aside.
As she settled back in, we rebuilt our bond—cooking together, watching old shows, and even going to counseling. One night, Maria told me, “You were always there. I just didn’t see it.”
Then another blow came. Her dad emptied her joint bank account and threatened to cut her off completely. Soon after, Maria learned Clio was pregnant, and it became clear her father was starting a new family and pushing her out.
We made a plan: she opened her own account, found a part-time job, and began looking into community college. Things were improving—until a letter came from my ex’s lawyer. He was trying to make me responsible for Maria’s college debt, blaming me for her dropping out.
I was shocked—but this time, Maria and I faced it together, stronger than before.