Susan worked for 40 years to retire early, dreaming of a peaceful life. Her grown son, who was unemployed, expected her to keep working to support him. When she refused, he smirked and said, “You’ll regret it.” The next day, his girlfriend called in a panic, saying he had packed his things and disappeared. Susan was terrified and spent two days frantically trying to reach him.
Finally, her son sent a cold text: “Don’t bother calling. I just need space to figure out my life. You’ve done enough.” Susan was torn between relief and heartbreak. She had always been there for him—covering his bills, bailing him out of crises, and offering endless support. This time, though, she chose to stand her ground.
Now, Susan is left questioning whether she pushed her son away forever or finally gave him the push toward independence he needed. The guilt and silence weigh heavily on her, making her wonder if she was too harsh.
Advice from others reminded her that boundaries are necessary, even with family. Susan has done more than enough, and now it’s her turn to enjoy the retirement she’s earned while giving her son the chance to grow and take responsibility for his own life.