\u201cI (32F) got engaged to my partner (35M) just a year ago. As of right now we have been together 5 years, and our wedding is planned for May 2025.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unfortunately, only a couple of weeks after our engagement, my nanna passed away. My nanna and grandpa worked extremely hard throughout their lives, were very successful, educated and had really high paying jobs. They were very restricted on spending money young and so lived their elderly years with lots of it. Worth noting my grandpa is a very, very intelligent man, and he\u2019s very smart with money and investments, so when I say lots, I do mean lots.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My nanna wrote a hugely generous sum of money into her will that was to be inherited by me, my brother and my three cousins. Even after the money was divided up, there was still thousands to each of our names. I won\u2019t disclose the exact amount.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When I heard the news, I told my fianc\u00e9, and he was incredibly overjoyed, much more than I expected him to be. I went along with it and shrugged it off until later in the day I heard him on the game with his mates saying, \u2019I can pay my credit card off with that money, mate! We can finally get that boys\u2019 holiday we\u2019ve been planning, ay?\u2019 and laughing.\u201d
\u00a9 drobotdean \/ Freepik<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI walked into the room and asked, \u2019What money?\u2019 and he immediately looked at me funny and said, \u2019From your nan, babe.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I immediately exploded on him and said, \u2019You won\u2019t be paying anything off without my permission, and there most certainly will be no boys\u2019 holiday. It\u2019s not your money to have, it\u2019s written to me from MY nanna, it\u2019s not for you.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We had a shouting match and I left the room upset, he later got off the game and found me in the kitchen where he scolded me again and said, \u2019We are getting married, you will become my financial BURDEN. Any money you take in is mine also. It was incredibly selfish of you to make such a fool out of me in front of my friends and giving them false hope of a holiday.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Again, worth noting it wasn\u2019t me who said anything about a holiday, and where I become a financial burden I don\u2019t know considering I am in a very good job, and don\u2019t want children. I left the house without saying a word and am typing this at my friend\u2019s house right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I forgot to mention that this incident has literally just happened, the reason my fianc\u00e9 only just found out is because until now even I didn\u2019t know if the money was coming to me or not due to several family and court complications.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am I in the wrong?\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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