My sister and I have been close since we were kids. But that has changed recently. A couple of months ago, our dad passed away and after that, our relationship started picking up strain. Our dad left the family home to my sister and gave me a good chunk of money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My sister has always been reckless with money, and I\u2019ve always been known to be careful with it, so it made sense. But things became problematic when my sister got engaged. She\u2019s planning a big wedding, you know, the type every little girl dreams of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She wants the expensive venue with the big ball gown and hundreds of guests that will gush over her. And that\u2019s fine, she should have the wedding she wants if she can afford it. But she came and asked me to pitch in with the cash I inherited from my father.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I said no, and she begged me to change my mind, but I stood firm. I told her that the money would be used to pay for my studies, as my father intended. I was stunned when she just stopped arguing and quickly stormed off.
\u00a9 marymarkevich \/ Freepik<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A couple of days later, she called me and told me that I was being selfish for not helping her fund her wedding. She even went as far as to say that I didn\u2019t care about my family. I was hurt, but I still refused to pay her wedding expenses because that simply didn\u2019t fit in the budget I laid out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A few days later, I got a text from my mom saying I should help my family and that a wedding is a once in a lifetime event. She didn\u2019t say it outright, but it was clear that she was taking my sister\u2019s side in this situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So I decided to get an outside perspective by asking my fianc\u00e9 and friends what they think of the situation. They all agree that I would be crazy to give away all that money for a glorified party. But this whole situation still doesn\u2019t sit well with me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My sister hasn\u2019t spoken to me since I refused, and my communication with my mom has also taken a knock. And I just found out that my sister is going around telling everyone who is willing to listen that I ruined her wedding because I\u2019m \u201choarding money.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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