{"id":14620,"date":"2025-10-28T17:59:15","date_gmt":"2025-10-28T17:59:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=14620"},"modified":"2025-10-28T17:59:19","modified_gmt":"2025-10-28T17:59:19","slug":"i-agreed-to-be-my-best-friends-surrogate-years-on-it-turned-into-a-disaster","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=14620","title":{"rendered":"I Agreed to Be My Best Friend\u2019s Surrogate \u2014 Years On, It Turned Into a Disaster"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The OP shared, \u201cTwenty five years ago, my close friend Clara and her husband James were struggling with infertility. Clara couldn\u2019t conceive or use her own eggs. She asked me if I would consider carrying a baby for them to use my egg and James\u2019s material. I had already had my two kids and was done having children, I was hesitant at first, but eventually I agreed because I wanted to help my friend become a mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nine months later, their daughter Bella was born. From the start, Clara and James raised her as their own. I\u2019ve always been \u2018Auntie\u2019 to her, just a close family friend and that\u2019s all she ever knew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My own kids always knew the truth, I never hid it from them. They understood that Bella was biologically related to them and that I had helped my friend start a family. I never told Bella anything because I truly didn\u2019t feel it was my place. It was something her parents needed to decide if or when to tell her.\u201d<br>Bella stumbled upon the truth by accident \u2014 and ever since, her world has been turned upside down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The woman shared, \u201cA few weeks ago, Bella and her fianc\u00e9 were at his family\u2019s house, and they all did one of those DNA kits for fun. When the results came back, Bella saw that she had Cuban and Black ancestry which confused her since she knows both her parents are white.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of asking them, she used the combination to their safe which she had learned a while back and started going through their personal documents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She found an old photo of me pregnant in a hospital bed with Clara holding my hand, and she also found paperwork about Clara\u2019s infertility. After that she started pulling away, especially from Clara and none of us understood why until everything exploded.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The OP shared, \u201cTwenty five years ago, my close friend Clara and her husband James were struggling with infertility. Clara couldn\u2019t conceive or use her own eggs&#8230;. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14621,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":270,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14620","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14620"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14620\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14622,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14620\/revisions\/14622"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14621"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14620"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14620"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14620"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}