{"id":1583,"date":"2025-08-28T16:42:57","date_gmt":"2025-08-28T16:42:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=1583"},"modified":"2025-08-28T16:42:57","modified_gmt":"2025-08-28T16:42:57","slug":"my-husband-says-its-not-his-responsibility-to-pay-for-my-sons-tuition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=1583","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Says It\u2019s Not \u201cHis Responsibility\u201d to Pay for My Son\u2019s Tuition"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;ve been married to my husband Paul for 15 years. I have an 18-year-old son, Jude, from a previous relationship, and Paul has a teenage son from his first marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jude will start college this year, but my husband Paul refuses to pay his tuition. Instead, he wants to spend money on a car for his son&#8217;s 16th birthday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I said that spoiling his own son with a car at 16 isn&#8217;t that necessary but my son&#8217;s education is crucial. I then reminded his that my son has the same rights as his son.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paul smirked and then declared, &#8220;Don&#8217;t forget that your son&#8217;s father is a lazy man who never worked a day in his life.&#8221;<br>He then added, &#8220;don&#8217;t expect me to deprive my own son of nice gifts just because your son&#8217;s dad won&#8217;t step up and take his duties as a father seriously.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To my disappointment, he declared &#8220;Even though I love him, Jude is no longer my responsibility now that he is 18&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am crushed by my husband&#8217;s behavior, especially since he&#8217;s always been a good father figure for my son.<br>How should I handle this situation?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been married to my husband Paul for 15 years. I have an 18-year-old son, Jude, from a previous relationship, and Paul has a teenage son from&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1584,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1583","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":398,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1583","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1583"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1583\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1586,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1583\/revisions\/1586"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1584"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1583"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1583"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1583"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}