He\u2019s long captivated audiences with his controlled intensity, yet off-screen James Todd Spader is private, ritual-driven, and defiantly low-tech. Born to teachers in Boston and raised in elite East Coast schools, he veered from his family\u2019s academic path, bouncing through odd jobs\u2014rail loading, manure shoveling, yoga teaching\u2014before chasing acting in New York, where a gym friendship with instructor Victoria Kheel became a decade-long romance and marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
After early parts (notably \u201cEndless Love\u201d in 1981), Spader\u2019s breakthrough came with 1989\u2019s \u201cSex, Lies, and Videotape,\u201d which won him Best Actor at Cannes and set a course for complex, edgy roles. He later cemented mainstream fame as Alan Shore in \u201cThe Practice\u201d and \u201cBoston Legal,\u201d earning three Emmys and a reputation for razor-sharp, morally elastic characters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Spader has been candid about living with obsessive-compulsive disorder\u2014habits and routines aren\u2019t quirks but the scaffolding of his daily life and craft. That same precision fuels his preference for privacy: he avoids fame\u2019s spotlight and keeps a \u201cprivate face,\u201d resisting the parasocial pull that comes with celebrity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Technology holds no allure for him; for years he carried a battered flip phone and swore off computers, joking that opening the phone could shut it off. In his personal life, he and Victoria share two sons, Sebastian and Elijah; after their 2004 divorce, he began a long-term relationship with actress-sculptor Leslie Stefanson, with whom he has a son, Nathanael. Through it all, Spader has guarded a quiet, disciplined existence\u2014family, routine, and work over publicity.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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