{"id":19888,"date":"2025-11-24T13:59:38","date_gmt":"2025-11-24T13:59:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=19888"},"modified":"2025-11-24T13:59:39","modified_gmt":"2025-11-24T13:59:39","slug":"i-lied-to-my-son-about-his-mother-years-later-it-ruined-our-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=19888","title":{"rendered":"I Lied to My Son About His Mother\u2014 Years Later, It Ruined Our Family"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I adopted my son when he was only 5 years old. I found out that his mom abandoned him to live with another man that refused to accept her son. Rather than tell him the truth, I lied and said that she passed away when he was 2 years old.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Right now, he\u2019s a grown adult, finishing college. He came back last week from his dorms for a visit. I thought he\u2019d be happy and welcome us with a smile, but he looked angry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Turns out, he accidentally found out the truth about his mother. He ran off and disappeared for days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When he came back, he burst into tears and handed me an obituary. He said, \u201cYou lied to me about<br>my mom. She passed away 5 years ago. You stole every chance I had to know her!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m not sure if I was right to hide his past from him. I just didn\u2019t want to hurt him. What should I tell him?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I adopted my son when he was only 5 years old. I found out that his mom abandoned him to live with another man that refused to&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":19889,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19888","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":233,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19888","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19888"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19888\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19890,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19888\/revisions\/19890"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19889"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19888"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19888"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19888"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}