When Dad married Jane, everything in my life quietly shifted. She brought three kids into the house\u2014three loud, energetic, needy kids\u2014and somewhere in the chaos, I disappeared. Not literally, of course, but emotionally. I became the background noise in my own home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At first, I didn\u2019t notice the small things. A canceled movie night here, a forgotten promise there. But then it became a pattern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWe already saw a movie this week,\u201d Dad would say when I asked if we could still go, even though I hadn\u2019t gone at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When he skipped my concert, the excuse was, \u201cThe twins\u2019 room needed painting.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He even backed out of my school trip because \u201cThe twins only turn ten once.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Every time, it was the twins. Or Jane\u2019s oldest. Or something they needed. I slowly stopped asking for anything. Why set myself up for disappointment?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mom, though\u2014she always came through. Even after the divorce, even when she was exhausted, even when she had less money than Dad\u2014she was there. She saw me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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