Ending a relationship on good terms with an ex isn\u2019t as easy as most people think. So, can staying friends with someone you once loved and shared dreams with actually be a good thing?The thing is that on paper, having a friendly relationship with an ex may sound like a grown-up thing, something of a proof that what you shared mattered and that you are able to move on without feeling bitter that it ended. At the end of the day, that\u2019s what maturity looks like, right?However, if we ever make a decision to reach an ex, it usually comes with an expectation of how that possible meeting could unfold. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maybe it will start with a friendly hug and then catching up on life, looking at what\u2019s changed and what hasn\u2019t. Or, you might quietly desire an apology, even if you\u2019re not sure what you\u2019d do with one.This is one of the reasons why psychologists advise you to be clear-eyed about the real reason you\u2019re trying to make contact in the first place.These are some of the questions you should ask yourself before making a move and invite your ex over for coffee.Before you even consider reaching out to an ex, make sure you know exactly what is the reason behind the decision. Imagine that someone you love is thinking of making the same thing and see how you\u2019d react to their decision and then apply the same advice you\u2019d give to them to yourself.you want just friendship or maybe a reconciliation, be honest with yourself and make sure you don\u2019t send mixed messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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