{"id":48145,"date":"2026-04-23T15:05:40","date_gmt":"2026-04-23T15:05:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=48145"},"modified":"2026-04-23T15:05:41","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T15:05:41","slug":"we-adopted-a-3-year-old-boy-when-my-husband-went-to-bathe-him-for-the-first-time-he-shouted-we-must-return-him-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=48145","title":{"rendered":"We Adopted a 3-Year-Old Boy &#8211; When My Husband Went to Bathe Him for the First Time, He Shouted, &#8216;We Must Return Him!&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>After years of infertility, we adopted Sam, a sweet 3-year-old with ocean-blue eyes. But when my husband went to bathe Sam, he ran out, yelling, &#8220;We must return him!&#8221; His panic made no sense until I spotted the distinctive marking on Sam&#8217;s foot.I never expected that bringing home our adopted son would unravel the fabric of my marriage. But looking back now, I realize that some gifts come wrapped in heartache, and sometimes the universe has a twisted sense of timing.&#8221;Are you nervous?&#8221; I asked Mark as we drove to the agency.My hands fidgeted with the tiny blue sweater I&#8217;d bought for Sam, our soon-to-be son. The fabric was impossibly soft against my fingers, and I imagined his small shoulders filling it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Me? Nah,&#8221; Mark replied, but his knuckles were white against the steering wheel. &#8220;Just ready to get this show on the road. Traffic&#8217;s making me antsy.&#8221;drummed his fingers on the dash, a nervous tick I&#8217;d noticed more frequently lately.&#8221;You&#8217;ve checked the car seat three times,&#8221; he added with a forced chuckle. &#8220;Pretty sure you&#8217;re the nervous one.&#8221;&#8221;Of course I am!&#8221; I smoothed the sweater again. &#8220;We&#8217;ve waited so long for this.&#8221;The adoption process had been grueling, mostly handled by me while Mark focused on his expanding business.The endless paperwork, home studies, and interviews had consumed my life for months as I searched agency lists for a child. We&#8217;d initially planned to adopt an infant, but the waiting lists stretched endlessly, so I started expanding our options.That&#8217;s how I found Sam&#8217;s photo \u2014 a three-year-old boy with eyes like summer skies and a smile that could melt glaciers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After years of infertility, we adopted Sam, a sweet 3-year-old with ocean-blue eyes. But when my husband went to bathe Sam, he ran out, yelling, &#8220;We must&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":48146,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":35,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=48145"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48145\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48147,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48145\/revisions\/48147"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/48146"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=48145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=48145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=48145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}