{"id":48546,"date":"2026-05-04T17:55:14","date_gmt":"2026-05-04T17:55:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=48546"},"modified":"2026-05-04T17:55:14","modified_gmt":"2026-05-04T17:55:14","slug":"my-5-year-old-asked-why-mr-tom-only-comes-at-night-when-im-asleep-i-dont-know-any-toms-so-i-set-up-a-camera-in-her-room-and-waited-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=48546","title":{"rendered":"My 5-Year-Old Asked Why &#8216;Mr. Tom&#8217; Only Comes at Night When I&#8217;m Asleep \u2013 I Don&#8217;t Know Any Toms, So I Set Up a Camera in Her Room and Waited"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>My 5-year-old has names for everything: her stuffed rabbit is Gerald, her favorite blanket is Princess Cloud, and apparently, the man who visits her at night is &#8220;Mr. Tom.&#8221; I didn&#8217;t know anyone named Tom. So I set up a camera in her room, and what I saw knocked the breath out of me.It started the way all terrifying things do. Casually, over cereal, on an ordinary Wednesday morning.Ellie was working through a bowl of Cheerios with the focused intensity she brings to everything, and without looking up, she said, &#8220;Mr. Tom thinks you work too much, Mommy.&#8221;I set my coffee mug down. &#8220;Who&#8217;s Mr. Tom?&#8221;&#8221;He checks on me!&#8221; she said as if that answered it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I figured it was an imaginary friend. Ellie has a whole world living in her head. I let it go. That was my first mistake.It was about a week later that she stopped me cold. I was brushing her hair before bed, both of us looking at each other in the bathroom mirror, when she frowned at her reflection and asked, &#8220;Mom, why does Mr. Tom only come when you&#8217;re asleep?&#8221;The brush stopped in my hand.&#8221;What do you mean, when I&#8217;m asleep?&#8221;&#8221;He comes at night,&#8221; she said, perfectly calm. &#8220;He checks the window first. Then he talks to me for a bit.&#8221;My whole body went still.&#8221;Ellie, sweetie, what does Mr. Tom look like?&#8221;She thought about it seriously, the way she thinks about everything. &#8220;He&#8217;s old. He smells like a garage. And he walks real slow.&#8221; She paused. &#8220;He says not to wake you.&#8221;&#8221;Will he come tonight?&#8221; I asked, trying not to sound afraid.&#8221;I think so, Mommy,&#8221; Ellie replied.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My 5-year-old has names for everything: her stuffed rabbit is Gerald, her favorite blanket is Princess Cloud, and apparently, the man who visits her at night is&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":48547,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48546","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":42,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48546","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=48546"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48546\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48548,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48546\/revisions\/48548"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/48547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=48546"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=48546"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=48546"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}