I\u2019m a\u00a022-year-old guy, and my\u00a0girlfriend and\u00a0I have been together for five years since high school. I\u00a0always saw her as\u00a0my\u00a0future wife. Last weekend, she went out with her friends to\u00a0a\u00a0club for her best friend\u2019s birthday, while\u00a0I stayed home. Suddenly, I\u00a0felt excruciating pain in\u00a0my\u00a0right testicle, which turned out to\u00a0be\u00a0a\u00a0torsion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I tried calling her for help, but she ignored my calls and texts. I then texted her that something was wrong, and she could come home immediately. The club she went to is like a 5-minute walk from our apartment. She thought I was joking, that I was trying to ruin their night. She just replied with a \u201cWhat is it?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u00a0again tried to\u00a0call her, but as\u00a0expected, she just declined again. I\u00a0then texted her that\u00a0I need to\u00a0go\u00a0to\u00a0the hospital now. She texted me\u00a0that this wasn\u2019t the time to\u00a0play games, and she then told me\u00a0that if\u00a0I texted or\u00a0called her again, she would block my\u00a0number. I\u00a0again tried calling her, but she declined again, and when\u00a0I tried calling her a\u00a0second time, I\u00a0realized she actually blocked\u00a0me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It wasn\u2019t until she came home, smelled vomit, and realized I wasn\u2019t there that she understood the severity. I ended up in the hospital, and she stayed with me afterwards, apologizing profusely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Despite her apologies and care afterwards, I\u2019m deeply hurt by\u00a0her initial reaction. Ignoring my\u00a0desperate calls and messages while\u00a0I was in\u00a0severe pain felt like a\u00a0betrayal. It\u2019s not just about the pain; it\u2019s about feeling abandoned when\u00a0I needed her the most.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019ve been contemplating breaking up with her, but at the same time, I understand she genuinely thought I was joking. But I never had an issue with her going out in the first place, or have ever pulled pranks on her to come home from a night out. I\u2019m torn between my anger and my feelings for her. I\u2019m not sure how to proceed or if I can trust her again after this incident.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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