{"id":5747,"date":"2025-09-16T13:33:48","date_gmt":"2025-09-16T13:33:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=5747"},"modified":"2025-09-16T13:33:48","modified_gmt":"2025-09-16T13:33:48","slug":"my-bils-girlfriend-is-crossing-boundaries-with-my-husband-its-driving-me-crazy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/?p=5747","title":{"rendered":"My BIL\u2019s Girlfriend Is Crossing Boundaries with My Husband \u2014 It\u2019s Driving Me Crazy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m pregnant, 24 weeks. My husband and I were visiting his folks in their city the past week. It was fraught with problems, they are challenging people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My BIL (28m) has been dating this woman, S (30f) for three years. At my wedding 1.5 years ago, she spent all her time with me telling me how lucky I am to have him. I said he was certainly wonderful, but then I laughed and joked that he was the lucky one.\u201d<br>\u00a9 cookie_studio \/ Freepik<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAnyway, BIL and my husband don\u2019t talk much, so we haven\u2019t had any conversations with her ever since. When we visited last week, she and us ended up living at MIL\u2019s place. It\u2019s a small space, so things were tight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was on alert for any weird behavior. Well, apart from her babying him around, nothing inappropriate happened. We returned the day before yesterday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She video-called me today. I was outside and couldn\u2019t attend it. Anyway, I find abrupt video calls feel really invasive. When I called her back, on a regular audio call, she cut it.\u201d<br>\u00a9 freepik \/ Freepik<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cShe video-called me again and with the biggest smile on her face, yelled \u2019GUESS what I\u2019m wearing!\u2019 I stared stupidly at the screen and realized she was wearing my husband\u2019s T-shirt. This T-shirt means a lot to us. We met over a dating app, it\u2019s a striking shirt, and he was wearing it in his profile picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember sharing this story with the in-laws once, but can\u2019t recollect if she was there and heard it. Anyways, I\u2019m so annoyed. Her boyfriend has a million clothes at his mom\u2019s place, so why couldn\u2019t she just wear one of those? I find it so weird that she insisted on video-calling me whilst wearing my husband\u2019s clothes.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cI\u2019m pregnant, 24 weeks. My husband and I were visiting his folks in their city the past week. It was fraught with problems, they are challenging people&#8230;. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5748,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5747","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":411,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5747","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5747"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5747\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5749,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5747\/revisions\/5749"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5748"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5747"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5747"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsinbr.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5747"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}