My daughter, her boyfriend, and their six kids had been living with us for years, rent-free. My husband and I paid for everything—bills, food, and even childcare—while they made no effort to find work or move out. I kept hoping things would change, but instead, they just took our help for granted.
One evening, my daughter sat us down and announced she was pregnant again—with baby number seven. I was stunned. The house was already crowded, and we were barely managing financially. When I asked how they planned to support another child, she shrugged and said, “You always help us. It’ll be fine.” That was the breaking point for me.
I told her I loved her and the kids, but enough was enough. I couldn’t keep enabling her choices. She exploded in anger, calling me cruel and heartless, but I stood firm. The next morning, I told her to pack their things and go live with her boyfriend’s family until they could get back on their feet.
It broke my heart to see them leave, but deep down, I knew it was the right thing to do. Sometimes, love means setting boundaries. I hoped that being on their own would finally teach my daughter responsibility—and maybe, just maybe, help her build a stable life for her children.