I’ve been with my boyfriend, Lucas, for six years, and two years ago, he and his 12-year-old son, Jake, moved into my home. Recently, we welcomed our daughter, Ava, who is just three months old. I always tried to treat Jake kindly and make him feel included, even though it was hard sometimes. He could be distant, cold, and occasionally mean, but I brushed it off as teenage behavior.
Things changed when I noticed Jake being too rough around Ava whenever I wasn’t looking. At first, I thought I was overthinking, so I watched quietly from the hallway one day. I saw him poking her feet repeatedly, even as she squirmed. I told him to stop, and he just stared at me, expressionless, and walked away without a word. I spoke to Lucas, but he brushed it off as “sibling jealousy” and told me to “relax.”
Last night, I stepped out of the room for less than a minute to grab Ava’s bottle. Suddenly, I heard her crying—but it wasn’t her normal cry. It was a scream, full of panic and pain.
I rushed back inside and caught Jake pressing down on her tiny stomach with his hands, almost testing how much force she could take. Ava was turning red from screaming. I yelled his name, and he jerked his hands away—but again, his face was completely blank, like he felt nothing. No fear, no guilt.
I screamed for Lucas, and when he came in, I expected him to be furious. Instead, he pulled Jake behind him and said I was overreacting. He said Jake was “just curious” and I shouldn’t “make a scene.”
That was it.
I told them both to get out—right then, right there. Lucas called me crazy and said I was breaking up our family. I told him I didn’t care. My daughter’s safety comes first. He packed angrily while calling me names under his breath. Jake stayed silent, but I noticed the slightest smirk on his face as they left.
After they were gone, I held Ava for hours. She finally slept peacefully on my chest, something she hadn’t done in days. That’s when I realized—she must have been uncomfortable or scared around Jake before, and I hadn’t noticed soon enough.
Lucas has been texting non-stop, accusing me of ruining Jake’s life and being heartless. He said Jake is “just a kid” and that I “should have handled it better.” But I know what I saw. That wasn’t normal curiosity or playful roughness—it was cold and disturbing.
Today, my house is quiet, and for the first time in a while, it feels safe.