When my dad died, he left me his house and savings. My partner—terrible with money—suddenly pushed for marriage and selling the house for his “fresh start.” When I refused, he called me selfish and left. I was heartbroken, but soon realized I’d been carrying that relationship alone.
Instead of selling the house, I decided to restore it myself. With the help of my dad’s old friend, YouTube, and lots of trial and error, I slowly rebuilt not just the house—but myself. I slept better, felt peace, and learned to take pride in doing things on my own.
My ex tried to come back when he saw my progress, but I told him he missed the version of me who didn’t know her worth. She’s gone.
Later, my renovation photos online led others to ask for help. I started assisting people with their old homes, building community and finding a new purpose. A woman named Talia became a close friend and partner in these projects—not romantically, but in something deeper.
When Mr. Calhoun passed, he left me his tools with a note saying I reminded him of my dad. I cried, then kept building—now teaching other women to do the same.