Carla is a stay-at-home wife whose husband’s ex-wife began leaving their three boys with her all day during summer, assuming Carla was always available. Overwhelmed and feeling taken advantage of, Carla demanded $120 per day for childcare, insisting she wasn’t a free babysitter. Her husband stayed silent, leaving Carla feeling unsupported and frustrated.

Instead of escalating the conflict, she was encouraged to have a calm, honest conversation with her husband. She needed him to understand that her frustration came not from rejecting the kids, but from suddenly managing full-time childcare without preparation or help. Discussing boundaries and shared responsibilities could help them find a healthier balance.

Another option was proposing a structured childcare plan, with scheduled times for the boys, after-school activities, or even hiring a part-time babysitter. This would prevent future misunderstandings and ensure that everyone — especially the children — had stability and support.

Lastly, she was advised to protect her own well-being. Setting personal limits, considering family therapy, and carving out time for herself could help her maintain emotional balance. With communication, boundaries, and cooperation, Carla could navigate her role in the blended family without feeling overwhelmed or disrespected.