Family is supposed to be a source of support during our most painful moments, but Brenna felt deeply betrayed when her sister named her newborn son after Brenna’s ex-husband — the man who cheated on her. To make things worse, the family continued to include him in celebrations, even considering him as the baby’s godfather. Heartbroken and overwhelmed, Brenna reached out for help navigating this emotional conflict.

First, she needs to set clear boundaries with her sister. Naming the baby Soren and bringing the ex back into family events showed a painful disregard for Brenna’s healing. A calm conversation can help Brenna explain exactly how those choices hurt her and what she needs to protect her peace going forward.

If her ex continues being invited to gatherings, Brenna may need to distance herself from events where he’ll be present. There is nothing wrong with prioritizing emotional safety. It’s okay to decline invitations when being around him would reopen wounds and stall her recovery.

Lastly, Brenna should talk to her family about loyalty and how their support of her ex has affected her. And if the pain becomes too heavy, therapy can help her work through these complicated family dynamics, rebuild her confidence, and learn healthy ways to move forward without carrying resentment.