My mother-in-law has never approved of my marriage. I’m 41 and twelve years older than my husband, and from the beginning, she made it clear she doubted I could give her grandchildren. Despite her constant disapproval, my husband and I stayed strong, and I tried to keep the peace. Now that I’m finally pregnant, I hoped things would get better — but instead, they’ve gotten worse.

At a recent large family dinner, my MIL made a humiliating comment about my changing body. She looked me up and down and, loud enough for everyone to hear, said, “Looks like someone let herself go.” The room went silent. I felt my face burn, and for the first time, I couldn’t laugh it off or pretend it didn’t hurt. This wasn’t just another snide remark — it was the last drop.

I later reached out for support, sharing how painful her behavior has been throughout my pregnancy. I was reminded to lean on my husband, communicate openly, and set boundaries, even if it feels uncomfortable. Taking care of my emotional well-being, especially now, has to be a priority. I deserve peace during this time.

My story isn’t unique, but it’s a reminder that sometimes even family can overshadow moments meant to be joyful. With support, boundaries, and self-care, I’m learning to protect my happiness — and my baby — from unnecessary negativity.