A man shared that he had been fully supporting his pregnant girlfriend after she left her job, especially since she came from a poor family. But soon, he noticed his personal belongings disappearing — his phone, tablet, and other valuable items. He later discovered she had been secretly selling his things online without telling him.
Shocked and feeling betrayed, he confronted her and realized he could no longer trust her. Although she was carrying his child, he decided she could no longer stay in his home. He asked her to leave and return to her previous living situation, while still planning to support the baby financially.
Some advised him to consider giving her a second chance if she showed real remorse, especially given her difficult circumstances. Others suggested he investigate where the money went — whether it was used for basic needs or given to her family — and to set strong boundaries moving forward.
Now he’s left questioning the future of their relationship. He must decide whether rebuilding trust is even possible or if it’s healthier to remain separated while co-parenting responsibly.