My mother-in-law embarrassed me in the worst way possible — in public. It happened at my sister-in-law’s wedding when I unexpectedly got my period. I went to the bathroom, handled everything discreetly, and stepped out. Moments later, my MIL walked in after me and loudly announced, “You should hide your pads in the trash — it looks disgusting!” Her voice echoed, and several people looked our way. I felt my face burn, but I stayed quiet… at least for the moment.

I tried to hold my composure, but the humiliation kept replaying in my mind. This wasn’t the first time she had made snide comments toward me, but it was definitely the most public and unnecessary. I kept wondering why she felt the need to shame me over something natural — especially on a day that wasn’t even about her.

When all the wedding guests gathered later, I made a decision. I took the microphone and, in a calm voice, said, “My dear mother-in-law has reminded us today that periods are somehow ‘disgusting.’ So, for every woman here, I’d like to state proudly: menstruation is normal, healthy, and nothing to be ashamed of. What is embarrassing is shaming women for it.” The room fell silent, and my MIL turned red. I didn’t yell. I didn’t insult. I just said what needed to be said.

Now, I’m conflicted. Part of me feels empowered for standing up for myself and for every woman who’s ever been shamed. But another part wonders if I escalated things too far on a day meant for celebration. My MIL has been cold toward me ever since, and I don’t know if I should apologize or stay firm in my boundaries.