Sometimes, the simplest things hold the most meaning in life. A name, a place, or a few unplanned words can stay with us forever, especially when someone we love doesn’t prioritize us. In this story, a reader seeks help because her sister’s work project seems more important to her than her pregnancy.
Discuss with Oliver and see if there is any flexibility in the maternity leave plans. Maybe a slight adjustment could be made without significantly disrupting their plans. Explore if a part-time or reduced-hours solution could work temporarily to support the project and still prioritize the baby’s needs. You could offer to help remotely for a limited time after your leave starts, or provide extra support before your leave begins.