When my stepson Josh moved in at sixteen, he made it clear he saw me as the enemy. Every attempt I made — movie nights, home-cooked meals, simple kindness — was met with eye rolls, mockery, and the constant reminder: “You’re not my mom.” His words cut deeply, and while my husband insisted Josh was “just hurting,” I was hurting too.
As college approached, David stressed about the cost. I saw a chance to help, not to win Josh over, but to give him an opportunity I never had. My grandmother had left me enough money to pay for his tuition, so I offered it. Josh looked at me with disgust and said, “You can’t buy your way into being my mom.” And David nodded — agreeing with him.
After that, I stepped back completely. When Josh struggled with part-time jobs and community college, I said nothing. When David worried about his son’s future, I stayed quiet. I gave up trying to belong in a place where I was treated like an intruder.
Five years later, Josh called out of the blue with big news — and a bold request — that would shake everything all over again.