When your partner’s mom fakes a terminal illness, turns your home into a gothic horror show, and hijacks your life one guilt trip at a time — there’s a fine line between compassion and being emotionally blackmailed.This is a story about weaponized fragility, where one woman’s unconfirmed “cancer” diagnosis becomes a wrecking ball for her son’s relationship, her potential daughter-in-law’s mental health, and everyone’s basic human boundaries. And the worst part? The boyfriend’s playing along.

A 25-year-old woman (OP) lives with her boyfriend Liam (24) and has been dealing with his mom, Tanya, who claims she’s dying of cancer but has no confirmed diagnosis. Her constant demands have created chaos, from staying in their apartment for weeks, refusing basic comforts, to disrupting their private life with bizarre requests like massages at 3 am. Tanya has also made unreasonable demands, like moving in with her and getting jewelry to protect from her husband.

Despite Tanya’s shifting health updates, no clear diagnosis or paperwork exists. Meanwhile, OP has been struggling with her responsibilities—she’s a full-time student with two jobs—and Liam has adjusted his work schedule to care for his mom, causing tension in their relationship.

When OP plans a much-needed trip to Europe to visit her mom, Liam pressures her, questioning her loyalty. OP feels torn, as she wants to be there for Liam but doesn’t trust Tanya’s intentions. Redditors agree that OP isn’t in the wrong and suggest Tanya may be faking illness, urging Liam to confront her and demand clarity.