A rude woman at my restaurant demanded I change my hairstyle and uniform so I wouldn’t “distract” her fiancé. I stayed calm, got my “manager,” and returned—this time introducing myself as the owner. Her confidence disappeared instantly.
Moments later, my brother walked in and introduced his fiancée… the same woman who had just insulted me. She turned pale as everything clicked. After my brother learned what happened, she apologized, admitting her insecurity came from past relationships. I accepted, but reminded her that personal issues don’t excuse disrespect.
For my brother’s sake, we ended the night peacefully. The whole situation was a reminder: you never know who you’re talking to—and kindness will always take you further than pride.