For our 40th anniversary, my wife and I planned a romantic trip to Maine—just the two of us. But our daughter Jane insisted she and her family come along, demanding we babysit while they enjoyed themselves.Despite my wife’s doubts, I agreed to change plans to keep peace, booking a family resort in Florida. But Jane’s demands grew: snacks, pool time with the grandkids, and handling bedtimes so she and her husband could party.

Fed up, I confronted her, explaining this trip was our celebration, not a family vacation. When Jane threatened to cancel, I secretly switched our tickets back to Maine without telling anyone.We went on our original trip, and though Jane was furious and cut off contact, my wife and I enjoyed a peaceful, meaningful getaway. Sometimes, protecting your boundaries is the best gift you can give yourself—and your family.