Growing up, my sister was the clear favorite, while I learned early how to survive on my own. At 19, I left home, built my life from scratch, and kept my distance—not out of anger, but self-preservation. Years later, my dad called in a panic, asking for $5,000 to save their house. My reaction surprised even me: I laughed and told him to call their “princess,” not me.
What hurt most wasn’t the request—it was learning they first tried to get my sister to ask me for the money, because she couldn’t help. After years of ignoring me while endlessly supporting her, they suddenly remembered I existed when they needed saving. Now I’m left wondering if saying no was cruel—or simply a boundary that was overdue.
