Many commenters agreed that HR’s “help” felt conditional and unfair, warning that once weekend work is accepted, more demands may follow. Others suggested documenting everything, asking for written terms, and quietly job-hunting, while a few felt the company was protecting workflow and urged compromise. Overall, most felt Lisa wasn’t wrong for prioritizing her child.
Advice in brief:
Ask HR to put the agreement in writing, document all conversations, and check formal leave rights or labor laws. Clear boundaries and knowledge of your rights can shift the balance—or help you decide if it’s time to leave for a healthier workplace.