Lucy’s letter tells of heartbreak when her husband, James, chose his son’s football game over being present for the birth of their daughter. What should have been a joyful, life-changing moment turned into a painful memory as Lucy faced labor and delivery without her partner by her side. His dismissive text — claiming the baby wouldn’t remember the day — revealed a troubling lack of empathy and understanding.

The pain deepened when Lucy discovered James had stayed at his ex-wife’s house for days afterward. Instead of seeking reconciliation, he confided in his ex, a betrayal that undermined Lucy’s trust and made her feel abandoned in her most vulnerable time. To make matters worse, his ex belittled Lucy’s daughter, diminishing her importance in the family and adding insult to injury.

For Lucy, the cruelty of those words and James’s absence struck like a double betrayal — not only was her marriage shaken, but her child’s worth was dismissed. Such actions and attitudes raise red flags about future conflicts and James’s priorities. The experience left Lucy questioning whether her husband truly values their marriage and family.

Now, Lucy faces a painful crossroads. While counseling and reconciliation are possible if James shows remorse and effort, she must prioritize her self-worth and her daughter’s well-being. If he continues to put his ex and other children above her, separation may be the healthiest choice. Above all, Lucy deserves respect, love, and a partner who will stand by her during life’s most important moments.