I’m a part-time nanny, and one of the joys of my job is watching little milestones unfold. The girl I care for had just turned two when she started potty training. On one bright afternoon, she was completely absorbed in stacking her blocks, her brow furrowed in concentration. Suddenly, she stood up and froze, a warm puddle forming down her leg. I gently asked, “Did you have an accident?” expecting a shy nod or a nervous giggle. Instead, she turned to me with the gravest, most serious expression, paused for a dramatic moment, and said, “No… I’m just testing gravity!” I couldn’t help but laugh, but underneath the humor, I realized something important—children approach the world with curiosity, creativity, and a fearless honesty that adults often lose. For her, a small mishap wasn’t shameful; it was a moment of learning, of exploration, of discovering cause and effect.
That day stayed with me, reminding me of the subtle lessons children teach without even knowing it. While potty training is usually framed around control and discipline, her response revealed the power of perspective. She had reframed an “accident” into a playful experiment, a simple act of wonder that reminded me to approach life with a lighter heart. In the years that followed, I often thought about her words whenever I faced a problem or embarrassment—could I see it as curiosity instead of failure? Children, in their innocence, have a remarkable ability to turn life’s little messes into moments of discovery, and being there to witness that shift is both humbling and inspiring. Sometimes, the most profound lessons come not from textbooks, but from a two-year-old who sees a spilled puddle and thinks, “Let’s see what happens.”