A Reddit thread has revealed the top three ‘subtle signs’ people spotted which led to them discovering their partner was cheating on them.A private investigator may have broken down the 20 different signs your partner could be cheating on you, but apparently, there are three behaviours that are pretty recurring.Whether or not you believe cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone, as an expert has recently revealed there are six other betrayals that are arguably worse, there’s no doubt about it that cheating destroys trust, completely disrespects your partner, causes deep emotional pain, and can even establish long-term struggles with trust and self-worth.

So, if there’s any advice on how to identify it to help you get the hell out of the relationship if they’ve not told you about the infidelity yet, a Reddit thread is here to help you.The thread r/AskReddit has led to a community coming together to share their experiences of being cheated on in a bid to warn others, users sharing the ‘subtle sign’ that ‘made [them] realize [their] partner was cheating’.And three signs came out on top.Putting more effort into their appearanceIn an answer which received over 6,000 upvotes, one user commented: “His clothes.”He suddenly had sandals and button up shirts, that I’d tried to get him into for literal years.”In a heartbreaking admittance, the user continued: “I guess that means he did listen. All those things I told him he’d look good in, he started wearing as soon as he cared about looking good for someone else.”And other users shared similar experiences too, another explaining their ex husband suddenly got ‘interested in working out’ alongside loving being taken out for ‘practically a whole new wardrobe for his birthday’.