All she asked for was a five-dollar salad. What she received instead was embarrassment, a plate of fries, and a quiet turning point that changed everything. Now Rae is learning how to stop apologizing for needing care—and why some women refuse to let another woman disappear in plain sight.My boyfriend liked to call himself a provider.when I asked for a $5 salad, he laughed like I’d just demanded a luxury.I’m 26.I’m pregnant—with twins.When the test came back positive, I thought things would soften. I thought he’d step up. Instead, I learned just how invisible a pregnant woman can feel inside her own home.What I didn’t expect was someone else.What I didn’t expect was Briggs.He loved saying he was “taking care of us.”
That was his favorite phrase. He used it when he asked me to move in, like it was a vow—like generosity, like safety.But it wasn’t care.It was control.“What’s mine is ours, Rae,” he’d say. “Just remember who earns it.”At first, I blamed exhaustion. Then his comments started sounding less like observations and more like rules.“You slept all day again?”“You’re hungry… again?”“You wanted kids. This is part of it.”It wasn’t just what he said—it was the grin that came with it. The timing. Always when someone else could hear. Like he wanted an audience.By ten weeks, my body was already struggling. Everything hurt. Everything felt heavy. But Briggs still hauled me along to meetings and warehouse stops like I was just another item to transport.“You coming?” he called once, as I fought to get out of the car. “I can’t have people thinking I don’t have my life together.”“You think they care how I look?” I asked, breathless. My ankles were swollen, pain climbing my spine.