The world is still reeling from the loss of “Grey’s Anatomy” star Eric Dane, but the drama surrounding his private life is only just beginning.Days after the actor’s passing, Janell Shirtcliff shared a public tribute, and the response was anything but gentle.The photographer and filmmaker posted photos of Dane on her Instagram Stories in his honor. The images have since disappeared, but screenshots began circulating across social media within hours.While many saw Dane as the rugged “McSteamy,” the photographer and filmmaker knew a much more vulnerable side of the star during his grueling battle with ALS.The pair shared a deep connection that spanned over three years, navigating an on-and-off romance that stood the test of time.According to insiders, Dane specifically asked Shirtcliff to be by his side as his health declined. She reportedly wanted nothing more than to “show up for him” during his darkest hours.

The tribute seemed like a natural gesture for a grieving partner, but the internet was quick to point out a glaring omission.The Ultimate SnubIn a recently aired Netflix segment, the actor spoke candidly about the loves of his life, and social media detectives noticed Shirtcliff’s name was nowhere to be found.If you watched the final words on Netflix, he says he never loved anyone as deeply as Rebecca… respectfully ma’am, stay in your lane….” one commenter wrote.Others were even more blunt, with one telling Shirtcliff, “Girl… No! This isn’t your fight. His final words were for his wife. He didn’t mention you. Find your friends and choose grace. Choose self-respect.”But others were more dismissive. “This is so so disrespectful why would u put this out [sic],” one person wrote, with another adding, “Girl. Please. Have some respect.” One kept it short: “Inappropriate.” Another added, “She should of [sic] kept this to herself…”