When people think about marriage, they often picture a partnership filled with shared dreams, highs and lows, and the occasional bump in the road.And that’s true — but marriage is far more complex than that. Anyone who has been married will tell you it comes with unexpected challenges.Being married, especially happily married, is associated with better mental and physical health.Most couples start their journey with excitement, envisioning a life of shared goals, encouragement, and support when they say, “I do!”Yet even in seemingly smooth marriages, the pressures of everyday life can slowly take their toll. And research shows that women are more prone to experiencing marriage burnout than men.

Consider Alex and Taylor (names changed). They’ve been together for over 20 years and raised three children — one in high school, one in college, and one already working. Alex is a high-school teacher and sports coach, deeply passionate about his work. Taylor began her professional career in her mid-30s, eventually landing a managerial role in a respected law firm.On paper, Alex and Taylor’s life seems fulfilling. But over time, they’ve noticed changes. Alex feels disillusioned with his career and is questioning whether to switch paths or retire, placing more emphasis on his marriage. Taylor, however, is thriving professionally and determined to continue climbing the career ladder.