I’m a mom who’s spent years quietly watching my mother-in-law dote on my sister-in-law’s kids while treating my daughter like she doesn’t exist. I tried to stay calm for the sake of family peace, but the final straw came when my MIL brought gifts for every grandchild except mine—right in front of her. My daughter pretended not to care, but the look in her eyes shattered me.
So, I hosted a casual family dinner and brought small gifts for everyone—except my MIL. When she looked confused, I gently said, “Oh, sorry. It wasn’t our intention to overlook you.” Just like she’s done to my child for years. My husband called it petty, but I call it a lesson. For once, I made her feel what my daughter has felt all along—and I can’t help but wonder if that’s the only way they’ll ever understand.
