I thought I knew everything about my teenage son — until I found something that didn’t add up. That’s when I realized he’d been hiding something huge from me., Carol, used to know everything about my son, Ethan.My 15-year-old wasn’t the kind of kid who kept things bottled up. If something happened at school, I heard about it before dinner. If he liked a girl, he’d ask me for advice. Then there was baseball practice, which he loved attending.He was quiet and good. That’s why the change that happened a month ago didn’t sit right with me.t didn’t happen overnight. It crept in.At first, it was small things. Ethan spent more time in his room, barely talking to me. Then he started skipping baseball practice. He said he wasn’t feeling it anymore. That alone should’ve been enough to set off alarms because he loved baseball.
Then came the phone.Every time I walked into the room, he’d slide it into his pocket.I tried not to jump to conclusions.Teenagers pull away. That’s normal.But that behavior felt different.”Hey,” I said one evening, leaning against his doorframe. “You wanna talk about what’s going on?”Ethan didn’t even look up from his desk. “Nothing’s going on.””I’ve just got a lot of schoolwork. Extra projects. That’s why I’m a little nervous.”I watched him for a second longer, waiting for him to crack. He didn’t.Alright,” I said. “But if something is going on, you can tell me. You know that, right?””Yeah,” he muttered.But I knew he wouldn’t.Then he quit baseball completelyA few days later, he left for school as usual. He had his backpack and muttered a quick “see you” on his way out.Nothing seemed out of place.