Dating can be full of surprises—some sweet, others shocking. One woman recalled being 14 and ready for her first kiss, only for the guy to suddenly take his teeth out right before leaning in. That was an instant deal-breaker for her.

Another shared how her first date turned terrifying when the guy kept grabbing her stomach, saying, “That’s where my baby will be.” He even talked about moving into her house and marrying her. She was so freaked out that she hopped on a random bus and begged the driver to just drive.

One man described a date where the woman spent the whole time on her phone, posting selfies with the coffee he had bought her. Later, he saw her Instagram caption: “Treated myself #blessed #sogood #coffee.” She never even tried to hold a conversation, leaving him stunned by her self-absorption.

These moments remind us that dating can be unpredictable. Sometimes, we laugh about bad dates later, but other times, the unsettling behavior leaves us questioning how well we really know someone.