For two years, I worked 60-hour weeks while my husband, Ben, claimed he was “job hunting” from our couch. After my mom died suddenly, I took in my disabled sister, Mia, determined to care for her myself. Soon, I noticed Ben had new things — a gaming headset, a designer jacket — even though we were broke. Late one night, I checked Mia’s account and discovered the truth: Ben had been stealing her Social Security disability checks, calling it “rent” and telling her to keep it secret from me.
When I confronted him, Ben exploded, insisting Mia should pay because she “lived here.” I called him out for lying and demanded he return the money. Instead, he laughed and claimed he was “the man of the house.” That’s when I called the police. They didn’t arrest him on the spot, but they opened a case and took evidence, leaving Ben stunned.
The next day, I protected Mia’s finances and cut Ben off from all our accounts. He stormed out, and I haven’t let him back since. He texted me later saying he was “seriously looking for work now” and wanted to “clear the air,” but I ignored him.
Now, Mia and I are rebuilding our lives together. We laugh, we heal, and we’re safe. Ben is still couch-hopping somewhere, but this time, I’m not paying for his lies — or sacrificing my peace — ever again.