I still can’t believe this happened to me on my last flight about a week ago. I’m a tall man, and whenever I can, I book business class because the extra space makes all the difference. I paid for it with my own money, looking forward to finally having a comfortable trip.

I booked the window and the middle seat. Not long after I sat down, a woman came over holding a baby and sat down on the aisle seat. About couple minutes later, she turned to me demanded, “I have a baby, and I need your seat.” She didn’t ask politely, she’s been she just expected me to move. I was caught off guard but I told her no and said I booked and paid for the seat, and I wasn’t about to give it up.

About an hour later, the baby started crying. The woman kept walking down the aisle, bouncing the baby, and making a show of how hard it was. At one point, she raised her voice so everyone could hear: “Some people have no heart. He’d rather stretch his legs than help a struggling mom and child.”

At that point, a couple of passengers nearby gave me dirty looks. One older man even said, “It’s just one flight, let her have it.” Another woman asked, “Don’t you feel bad watching her struggle? How can you call yourself a man.” I didn’t even know how to respond. I felt cornered and just sat there, feeling like everyone was against me.

I felt so awkward. Everyone was looking at me like I was the bad guy. But the way I see it, I planned ahead, and she didn’t. It’s not my responsibility to fix her situation. She could have booked the same class if comfort was that important to her.

Still, part of me wonders if I came across as selfish. It wasn’t a long flight after all. Was I wrong for keeping the seat I paid for, or was she out of line for trying to guilt-trip me in front of the whole plane?