At Charlie Kirk’s memorial, Erika Kirk made a simple hand gesture that carried a deep meaning. In American Sign Language, it symbolized “I love you,” a heartfelt message to her late husband.
Tens of thousands gathered at State Farm Stadium in Glendale, Arizona, including President Donald Trump, Vice President JD Vance, and Elon Musk. While the event honored Charlie’s life, Erika’s gesture captured the most attention.
Unfortunately, some online users misinterpreted her sign, claiming it was something negative. Supporters quickly clarified that Erika’s gesture was purely an expression of love. The key difference lies in the thumb — raised in the ASL “I love you” sign, unlike the similar “rock on” hand sign seen at concerts.
What began as a loving tribute became a reminder of how easily misunderstandings can spread online, and how important it is to seek truth before judging others.