When I left town for work, I trusted my husband to care for my mother, who was battling cancer. But when I came home early and found her sleeping on a thin mattress in the hallway, shivering under a single blanket, I was stunned. How could he be so cruel?
My name is Julia, I’m 41, married, with one daughter who recently left for college. The house felt emptier without her, but life changed even more when my mom was diagnosed with cancer. She started chemotherapy, and I brought her to live with us so I could care for her.
Daniel and my mom were never close—they were polite but often disagreed. Still, I thought compassion would override any tension. I gave her the guest room, and she fit into our home life gently, always trying to help despite her exhaustion.
One morning, I left for an overnight work trip. Mom assured me she’d be fine with Daniel around. But I returned earlier than planned the next day and was horrified to find her curled up on a thin mattress in the hallway, trembling under a blanket.
She explained that Daniel had told her all the rooms were being treated for mold, so she had to sleep in the hall “just for the night.” He’d even asked her not to tell me. When I returned “officially” at noon, Daniel acted normal, claiming everything was fine. Later, I saw he’d removed all evidence of the mattress.
That evening, I confronted him with photos I’d taken of Mom in the hallway. His reaction chilled me: “She deserved it,” he sneered. He ranted that she was a burden, that he never agreed to live with her, and that he wouldn’t “sacrifice” his life for her.
I realized then that the man I thought I knew was selfish and heartless. “If I have to choose,” I told him, “I’ll choose the woman who raised me.” I told him to leave.
That night, I sat at the kitchen table and searched for a divorce attorney. Ending the marriage wasn’t easy, but once it was over, I felt free. Mom stayed with us through treatment, and Sophie visited every weekend. Daniel tried calling, but I never answered. The man who left my sick mother on a hallway floor had no place in our lives anymore.