My three-year-old son, Johnny, once adored daycare—until one morning, he woke up screaming and refused to go back. What I thought was a random tantrum quickly turned into a week of panic, tears, and desperate pleas not to attend. After trying everything, I promised to pick him up before lunch one Saturday and watched from outside. What I saw left me shaken: an unbadged woman force-feeding my sobbing son, ignoring his distress. Furious, I stormed in and confronted the staff, only to learn she was an unsupervised volunteer—someone’s aunt, with no qualifications. Johnny later told me she’d humiliated him in front of other kids.
I reported the incident to the state, and within days, an inspection revealed even more violations—overcapacity, untrained staff, and several kids subjected to the same treatment. The daycare lost its license. Other parents, like me, had missed the signs, blaming their kids’ reluctance on pickiness or mood swings. Johnny’s quiet cry of “no lunch” had protected not just himself, but others too. Now, he’s thriving at a new daycare where he’s treated with kindness and respect. And I’ve learned to always listen—because sometimes, one small voice is the only warning that something’s very wrong.