STORY 1 : I had been dating this guy for almost a year. He and his daughter lived with his dad in a big two-story house. His dad worked a lot and made really good money. I would have definitely considered them upper class. So anyway, my ex had a full-time job. His hours were always different, but he’d go in almost every day. He would always tell me about his day, things he had to do at work—typical stuff. One day, I got a call from my parents saying they were worried about me. They informed me that they saw my ex,

who was supposedly at work, standing outside in the median of a commonly busy intersection. He had a sign and was begging people for money. I came to find out he had been doing that for years, never had a job the entire time we were together, and was just lazy. I was shocked at the time. Now that I backtrack, I realize I missed the warning signs. STORY2 : I suddenly got very sick. My daughter-in-law was the only one who visited me. For 7 days, she brought fresh ingredients, made chicken soup, fed me, cleaned, and left. I never left my room. When I finally got out of bed,