My 7-year-old son was happily running around a store when he accidentally broke some plates. I politely asked the store workers to clean it up and hugged my son, saying, “It’s okay, don’t worry.”
Then I overheard them talking while cleaning, loud enough for me to hear: “It’s a shame everyone can be a mother today.”
I fired back with something, and suddenly it turned into a full-on argument. They started yelling things like, “You’ll have to pay for this!”
I didn’t want my son to hear any of it after all my effort raising him in a healthy, safe environment, so fed up, I stormed over to the manager’s office. She wasn’t there at first, but apparently someone had told her what was happening.
Then the manager walked up, yelling.
I overheard her coming from behind, yelling, “Lady, why are you making a scene in the middle of the store? Your kid needs to be more careful around fragile aisles, and you are the one responsible for all this!”
I lost it. I told her, “No one here has the right to tell me how to raise my child. I never said I wouldn’t pay for the plates, but I think your store workers should mind their own business instead of judging my motherhood.”
By this point, my son was getting stressed out. He quietly told me, “Mom, just pay for it, for my sake.” So I did. I paid and left, and honestly, I’ll never step foot in that store again.
But now, I keep wondering… should I have done more? I feel like I haven’t said enough. How should gentle parents respond to public shaming like this