Growing up in a household with seven children and struggling parents, the oldest sibling has been working since age 13 to help support the family. They believed their parents were done having kids and began planning for their own future. But everything changed when their parents suddenly announced another pregnancy — leaving the teen overwhelmed and unsure how to move forward.
Online commenters shared strong and conflicting opinions. Many emphasized that caring for siblings is not the teen’s responsibility, and the parents are acting irresponsibly by continuing to have children without financial stability. Some suggested emancipation or contacting social services, arguing no teenager should be forced to financially support a household.
Others offered more practical long-term advice, recommending the teen focus on education, save money, and plan to move out as soon as possible. They encouraged looking into outside resources like food banks and government programs to help reduce pressure on the oldest child.
While everyone agreed the situation is unfair, the advice highlighted one key point: children shouldn’t be forced into the role of a parent. Being responsible for siblings and household finances at such a young age isn’t normal — and planning for independence is crucial for the teen’s future.