I got married when I was twenty-five, believing love would be enough to build a life. But three years later, I learned that marriage built on control isn’t love—it’s a slow kind of breaking.

That evening, my temperature hit 104°F. My body shook, my skin burned, and all I wanted was to lie down for a while. When dinnertime came, my husband, Mark, walked through the front door after work. The first thing he did was frown.“Where’s dinner? Why didn’t you make anything?”

I tried to sit up, my voice hoarse.“I’ve got a fever, Mark… I can barely stand. Let’s skip dinner tonight, okay? I’ll cook tomorrow.”But he didn’t soften. His voice rose instead.“So what’s the point of staying home all day if you can’t even cook? What kind of wife are you?”

Before I could react, he slapped me across the face.My cheek burned. Tears rolled down, but not just from pain—mostly from disbelief.
“Mark… I’m really sick,” I whispered.He didn’t care. He turned away, slammed the bedroom door, and left me shaking in the living room.
And that’s when I realized: the man I married didn’t see me as a partner—just as someone to control.